10 Things I'd Love to Tell Myself At Twenty-One

10 Things I'd Love to Tell Myself At Twenty-One

My girlfriend asked me, “What advice would you give my niece about investing in real estate?”

It was a loaded question that lead to several of follow-up queries.

What does she want to invest in?  Where does she want to invest?  How much money does she have?  What are her long-term goals?

My girlfriend rolled her eyes (she does this a lot) and quickly re-framed the question, “What advice would you give a twenty-one-year-old version of yourself?”

That gave me pause. 

“Good question,” I said, the wheels turning. 

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Are We a Nation of Perpetual Children?

Are We a Nation of Perpetual Children?

Lately, I’ve been thinking about a word that I believe we avoid to describe our actions - immature.

The word makes many of us feel bad when we see it or hear it applied to our behavior.  We fought so hard against it when we were young.  We told our parents we were mature and ready to go out and make our own way.  There's no way that word could still be applied to us as adults, right? 

If you were like me as a teenager, then you saw your parents as essentially fools.  They had no idea what was going on in the real world while they were hiding inside their own home. 

As the years passed, though, my parents grew smarter.

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